I don't mean to keep using this blog as a personal diary, but with so little experience I can only write about thing I know, so with that said...here I go again!
I'm not sure where you're from and what the movies are like out there but you must have seen a movie, or at least heard of a storyline that went a little bit like this:
There's a girl who is best friends with a guy.
The guy is secretley in love with the girl.
But the girl doesn't know this.
So she just dates whoever she wants.
They're usually jerks.
And when she gets her heartbroken, he's the one who's always there.
The shoulder to cry on,
the tissue-passer,
the warm hug,
The one who has to spend hours on the phone listening to her cry/moan/vent.
The audience and everyone around them can see that they're perfect for each other.
But the girl doesn't.
She never even thinks of going out with this guy.
But still he loves on, just accepting that that's the way it's going to be.
The guy is secretley in love with the girl.
But the girl doesn't know this.
So she just dates whoever she wants.
They're usually jerks.
And when she gets her heartbroken, he's the one who's always there.
The shoulder to cry on,
the tissue-passer,
the warm hug,
The one who has to spend hours on the phone listening to her cry/moan/vent.
The audience and everyone around them can see that they're perfect for each other.
But the girl doesn't.
She never even thinks of going out with this guy.
But still he loves on, just accepting that that's the way it's going to be.
Yes? That's sort of the gist of it - the cliche.
And that's how I feel at the moment.
Obviously it's the other way around, I, the girl, am in love with the guy.
Also we're not best friends. We're good friends. But not best.
And, a good point, is that he's not dating nasty people. He's not dating anyone. But he does want to be dating someone. He keeps telling us.
But when he's down I cheer him up, I give little gifts, laugh at the jokes, join in with the fun, help him out, never let him down, - all the little nice significant things that, in a movie, would eventually make him love me. No sucsess yet though.
My life is so not "movie".
But still I hold my head high and hope that one day he'll stop in his rush to find a girlfriend and realise that I, too, am a girl.
I'll keep you all posted.
Has anyone else been in a situation like this?
Any advice?
Cuddles and cupcakes,
Vixxie.
6 people makin' conversation:
you're doing everything right. you sound like a great friend. let him figure it out on his own, you obviously feel the way you do toward him and you obviously have a connection, let him realize it.
sorry I messed up and deleted my old comment above
I definitely have been in that position.
(also... kind of sort of maybe am...now...)
I don't have any advice... sorry. I really don't know what to do in the situation. I guess you're doing all you can do, you can't make someone like you. Just being his friend, is good.
Aaw thanks guys, this has helped.
I'm sort of okay with the fact that we're just friends. It's nice enough, it just frustrates me a little that he keeps talking about how he really wants a girlfriend! Sometimes I feel like standing on a chair and waving my arms around: "I'm right here!"
But it's nice enough hanging out with him so I'm not too worried. ;)
and Camillo, I hope your situation works itself out too!
good luck good luck good luck.
you're there for him.
he'll notice.
ya i've been in this situation too but sadly i'm one who's lookin for advise too,all i can say is just...well...just do wat you said u would do,holdyour head up high and if he ever finds out you lke him and it dont work out,just move on and find some1 who deserves u and not some1 like him cause if he only wants to be friends there is nothing u can do bt hope he changes himmind but hopefully hewont change his mind wen u would already have a really good guy and u keep us all posted please!!!
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